https://www.jovihappy.nl/blog/lifestyle/the-marriage-decline-is-economic-and-so-is-the-fix/ https://www.coolz.nl/blog/lifestyle/craigslist-growth-reflects-an-interest-in-dating-not-hookups/ https://www.inpetto-jeugddienst.be/blog/lifestyle/kissing-natures-ultimate-litmus-test/ https://www.uniquearticles.nl/blog/lifestyle/when-a-player-tires-of-the-game/ https://www.remorques-walt.be/blog/lifestyle/the-worrisome-increase-in-sexless-relationships/ https://www.studiowk.nl/blog/lifestyle/filtering-watch-how-a-man-treats-others/ https://www.mdbrothers.nl/blog/lifestyle/this-data-on-monogamy-stuns-even-the-social-scientists/ https://www.idemat.nl/blog/lifestyle/the-pernicious-myth-of-unconditional-love/ Well sure….I mean a person could probably consider something a simple as flirting a “game”….but I think most of us know there’s a fundamental difference between flirtation/joking and faking a persona and calculated manipulation. I’d say it’s pretty easy to draw the distinction between the two and yet the fans of the latter like to pretend they don’t see/comprehend the difference. It’s like not understanding the difference between a little white lie told to not hurt someone’s feelings and a huge lie that destroys someone’s life. Sometimes those guys act like they have the brain power of a newborn in understanding simple concepts like that. Lady Raine | December 10, 2010 at 6:24 PM | Seventy Nine said: Ignore the media and look for people in your league. I would say that’s fair advice for both genders. I guess everyone has a different interpretation of what their “league” is, though based on their self-esteem and sense of reality (ie: gorgeous, brilliant person who thinks they’re ugly and stupid and don’t deserve better or awful person who thinks they’re a fabulous catch…..) as to what they should expect and what they should “hope for”. Everyone has an “ideal”….but everyone also has to NOT be blind to realizing our ideals may not really be what would make us happy in the long-run. Seventy Nine | December 10, 2010 at 8:16 PM | Lady Raine, From what I’ve seen, most people know what league they are in, they just don’t want to accept it. There is way too much delusion in the average person. The funny thing is that between them, the attractive people and the ugly people, they have it the easiest because they are the majority. The media and giving people praise for doing things that they are supposed to do cause this.