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by Louise C on 2004 Jul 11 - 19:23 | reply to this comment
Still working on submission
Hi Malcolm

Our official 'head of the household' policy has only been in effect for around six years so we are both still learning what makes it heavenly and what puts a spanner into the works. FWIW:

It seems to me that if a woman is to make herself submissive, she has to have a certain inner strength, otherwise she cannot let herself go.

Absolutely. But there are as many different kinds of submission and power structures as there are contributors to this site I am sure. Ours goes like this:

I bring participating, mindful obedience to a respected husband. I am still a fully credible partner in the relationship but I have learnt to lay down control over many things. I am still expected to be responsible for myself and to participate in decisions that are critical to our home and family. I haven’t had a lobotomy any more than my thinking and reasoning responsibilities been abrogated. IOW I am expected to still be the same smart, strong woman I was before but now I am meant to obey when given a order by him (and only by him).