https://bit.ly/3ewqz0c https://bit.ly/3CTapHl https://bit.ly/3rPWxYb https://bit.ly/3rRIi5b https://bit.ly/3ewqw4w https://bit.ly/3CUY1qq https://bit.ly/3rSuWFK https://bit.ly/3CWqfBm This is true only to shallow men who are afraid this promiscuous woman will be able to compare him to other men. I can understand his attitude, and respect that, but it does stem from the male insecure ego. However it is a fact of life and women need to know this fact. If you disagree, then explain EXACTLY what is inheritly bad about multiple partners. terre says: December 14, 2010 at 3:26 pm “[sex] … which we all agree is a good thing” Er, “sex” is not de facto a good thing. By that argument rape is “a good thing”. There are all kinds of serious externalities involved with sex, not limited to STDs (it’s impossible to fully protect oneself because of the nature of diseases), bonding chemicals, etc. Florence says: December 14, 2010 at 3:31 pm @ SOX “There’s a difference between that and a record of chronic bad judgement. And the red flags in personality traits and emotional baggage.” What is a “record of chronic bad judgement”? Is that a specific number that has to be lower than your number? Tom says: December 14, 2010 at 3:33 pm @ terre Please dont compare two consenting adults having sex to rape. That is a totally different arena. The issure here is the hypocritical attitude of men who look down on women who have behaved the same way they have. No one has yet explained why two consenting adults who choose to have sex is a bad thing. If it is not a bad thing once, how can it be a bad thing more than once? Tom says: December 14, 2010 at 3:33 pm @ terre Please dont compare two consenting adults having sex to rape. That is a totally different arena.