From Subtle Pheasant, 2 Years ago, written in Plain Text.
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  15. I have still not handled this situation with my ex, and frankly, I am at a loss as to how to handle it.  First and foremost, I love my husband very much, and although my ex is the father of my children, I am not in love with him anymore.  I am thankful that he gave me two beautiful gifts, but that is as far as it goes.
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  17. He left me holding the bag in trying to explain to my six year old son why he thinks Mommy loves him more than her husband.  It was not an easy conversation, and for most of it, I was so baffled by the mere fact that I was having this conversation to begin with.  I ended up with a very lame, “I’m sure he was joking with you.”
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  19. Have you ever had this issue, where you ex speaks out of turn?  How do handle this type of situation?
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  21. When you get divorced, there is a very real possibility you will meet someone who is also divorced and more than likely has children.  This brings a whole wealth of issues into relationship.  I am remarried.  My new husband is divorced with children.  This is my story.
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  23. I am the second wife.  I don’t mean wife #2, because I am actually wife #3.  I mean the second wife.  As in, more than one.  Yes, folks, my hubby is a bigamist without committing bigamy.  How is that possible?
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  25. He has his wife, me.  He has his ex.  I am wife #2 and she is #1.  She gets all the concessions of being first wife, without the sex and the shit that goes along with being married.  She decides that I am not allowed to be around his children.  She decides that he can’t take them on vacation.  She decides that he can go with them on vacation, but only if I am left at home, and she is there.  She decides that I am not allowed at any life cycle events.
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  27. As wife #2, I get the honors of having sex when he wants, picking up his dry cleaning and cleaning up after him.  That’s it.  Nothing else.  Wife #1 lives with the kids in another city.  He goes to said city to work and see kids.  I have no idea what they do together as a “family”.
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  29. Why can’t I be his family WITH his children?  That’s the million dollar question!  He is my family with MY children.
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